Monday, September 26, 2016

Fix it

At the end of the day:

All of us wants someone to believe and trust in, especially when it comes to having our best interest at heart. But truth be told, that's a rare jewel to find. So if you find that person, hold on tight and don't let the small things tear it apart.... Sometimes it's better to fix it than to lose it...#relationshipmatters

Monday, September 12, 2016

How Long!?

When helping people starts to hurt you, it's time reevaluate whether or not they are worth your sacrifice. If they are not worth the pain and hurt they are causing you, then it's time to pull the plug before they drain you dry... A DRY YOU can't help the others that are Worthy and in true need of help ... How long will you let them use you? How long will you allow them to run over you? How long will you continue to enable them? Pull the plug and cut the cord so they can't reconnect... #StopProvidingLoopHolesAndAwayOut #StartPromotingAccountabilityAndResponsibilityInPeople #TheyHaveToLearnSomeDay #NoMoreEnablingPeople

Sunday, September 11, 2016

Til Death Do Us Part

A loveless, lifeless marriage is a disease that gradually eats away at your soul and inner being. Being emotionally trapped in a legal and matrimonial prison that wears on your physical and mental being is a death sentence in itself, literally. Is that really the life God has for us? At some point you have to make a choice and weigh your options as to whether to stay or go. What God put together, let no man put asunder, TRUE. But did HE put it together or did YOU? Every work or act under the sun is not of Him although HE allows it to happen. If HE put it together this post would be obsolete, for nothing HE designed or orchestrated would fail or be without love...#ThinkAboutIt #DeepPost #RealTalk ~Dr. Rock Ramsey~

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Chea!!

As of 5:39 pm this evening (09/07/16), I have successfully defended and released my "boyfriend"(Mr. Dissertation), and heard the words I've been waiting 5 years and 9months to hear. "Congratulations Dr. Wiley! You did it!" by both my Chair, Dr. Gerald Nissley, and My Committee Member, Dr. Grant Rich. And with that being said, I present to you, without further ado....Dr. Marilyn Wiley!!!
I will be walking in the January Graduation Ceremony in Orlando! #CHEA #ImDone #ClinicalPsychologist #Labcoat #DrRockRamsey #AndThereItIs #FirstAfricanAmericanFemaleDoctorFromBrantleyHigh #FirstDocInTheFamily #Accomplishments

I started my PhD program on 12/07/10, ironically, and I owe this success to my Mom and her untimely demise. She took her seat in Heaven on 12/07/07. If it was not for her tragic death I would have never slowed down and finished my Master's or PhD.  Instead of being depressed, harboring anger and negative feelings, and driving myself crazy wondering about the circumstances of her loss, I put my time thoughts and energy in a positive direction. A direction that not only help me channel my hurt but also a direction that has allowed, and will continue to allow, me to help others.

I would like to say thanks to all my family, friends, and supporters, but most of all THANK YOU GOD!!! Next up is studying for and passing the AZ State Board Exam for licensure 😊😊😊 Let's Get itJames WileylMelinda WileylLatasha ReneenLaTessa YeliwlZach WileylJared WileylKennedy Salyse WilliamsaShirley ShepherdeMary WillslBelinda StreeteJackie Wiley DanielseVeronica WileylFemi Osheshe