What's so hard about it?

Is it so hard to believe that a Good Black Woman Still exist?
Is it so hard to believe that a virtuous woman can indeed have black skin and nappy hair?
Is it so hard to fathom a Black Woman who has been through trials and tribulations, but is still able to speak life into a man?
Is it so hard to believe that as independent as she may be there are certain things independence can't give her therefore she needs a real man?
A real man that understand the difference between her needing him and wanting him and how important both scenarios are. A real man that see her value as a real woman based on her own merits and not the transgressions of his past little girls.
Is it so hard to believe that some women are truthful and honest and have nothing to gain from lying to a man and nothing to lose from walking away if a man doesn't trust her anyway?
Why is it hard to believe, even if there are just a few, that good God-fearing women do exist and maybe it's your insecurities that make you think otherwise?
Why can't it be ok for a woman to be self sufficient and only need you for love, support, and companionship?
And why say that you want to provide for her, and want her to need and depend on you, but put stipulations on the needs you will provide or she can ask for?
Why bother a real woman if you know you're not a real man?
Why clump good women in the universal phrase "these hoe's ain't loyal" when the attributes of a real woman and hoe's differ quite a bit and further more many men fit the attributes of a hoe as well?
Is it so hard to believe that most women want their own man, not to be shared and will honor the loyalty ten folds?
Why ask for something that you claim you want, but you can't handle?
Why ask her to have your back when you square off with her face-to-face yelling as if she's the enemy?
Real black women do exist but where are you real black men? The real black man that can actually see her worth and treat her as the priceless breed of woman she is? Show up, Stand up, Speak up, or Keep it Moving.. A real woman can be the woman a man needs, but can you at least be what a real woman wants? I real man.... Now Ponder that.... And there it is.... #ofaDifferentAndRareBreed #treatHerAsSuch #GradeAchoice #REALWOMANCERTIFIED ~Dr. Rock Ramsey ~