Stop hurting yourself:

Sometimes doing the best and right things in our interest are the hardest things to do. We might feel guilty at times because people sometimes get their feelings hurt based on our decisions to protect our own feelings that keep getting hurt by them. But in the end, if you think about it, if those people whose feelings you are forced to hurt, cared anything about you and your feelings, you wouldn't be in a position that warrants you hurting them in order to protect yourself. If it were not for their actions you wouldn't be in such a difficult position as to choose whether to hurt them or allow them to continue to hurt you. When people hurt you, they are giving you the OK to hurt them back, in so many words, and in return putting themselves in a position to get hurt.. Thus..You hit me and I'm going to hit you back. Maybe not immediately, but surely eventually... Remember hurt people hurt people...... It has to end somewhere... So why not start by refusing to hurt yourself, by stopping others from hurting you??? Get rid of those people that hurt you and ask God to remove the unnecessary guilt of doing so. You only did what you should have done quite naturally to protect you. #learningToCutToxicPeopleOff