I am THAT GIRL

Let's have GIRL talk and face our hidden reality.  #aMomentofTRUTH

I am THAT GIRL. Are you?

Yes, I am that girl that was falsely accused.

I am that girl that was cheated on repeatedly and took him back.

I am that girl that cheated on my husband/boyfriend and lied and said I didn't.

I am that girl that rather have many men, instead of just one.

I am that girl that had a scare of pregnancy and dealt with the possible shame of having a baby out of wedlock or possibly aborting.

I am that girl that played the main chick role, to later find out I was really only the side chick.

I am that girl that said I'd never take him back and did.

I am that girl that knowingly slept with a married man.

I am that girl that slept with someone for money and personal gain.

I am that girl that was sexually harassed on the low at the job and dealt with it just to stay employed.

I am that girl that was sexually assaulted or touched inappropriately and unwantedly as a child and/or adult.

I am that girl that did the unspeakable and unforgivable and was sickened to know that water couldn't wash away the guilt.

I am that girl that was sexually abused and molested by a family or family friend.

I am that girl that battled depression and almost lost my mind.

I am that girl that had her heart broken numerous times.

I am that girl that lost someone close to me to tragedy.

I am that girl that loved someone that didn't love me back.

I am that girl that contemplated suicide, Oh But God...

I am that girl that questioned God and shunned Him when I didn't understand life's struggle.

I am that girl that struggled with prescription pain medication.

I am that girl that thought alcohol was a cure all.

I am that girl that was a victim of domestic violence.

I am that girl that was mistreated and discriminated against.

I am that girl that felt like a failure if she didn't get all A's in school.

I am that girl that struggles daily with chronic pain.

I am that girl that was called ugly and wore glasses and had braces.

I am that girl that bullied a classmate.

I am that girl that felt betrayed and used by family and friends.

I am that girl that is often misunderstood.

I am that girl that lost sleep worrying about bills.

I am that girl that has poor eating habits.

I am that girl that hated my job.

I am that girl that rather stay in bed instead of facing the day.

However, I am that same girl that dealt with it all, stayed the course, and beat the odds through prayer, faith, and God's Favor, Grace, and Mercy.

You can't fix you, until you know, understand, and accept YOU. A part of helping yourself and others is being able to be honest and open with yourself, and being able to sympathize with others without judging. I'm no different than you. My blues might not be like your blues, but I AM THAT GIRL, ARE YOU???

Therapy and the truth hurts sometimes, but you have to face it.

Disclaimer: You might not be able to relate to all, or none, of these but in order to teach, reach, and help someone you should be able to sympathize and not judge.... And yes, some of them, not all of them, truly applies to me....Judge Not Lest Thou Be Judged... Deep Therapy is Good Therapy. ~Dr. Marilyn Wiley, PhD.~